Firstly I need to state that I am a single Bi male who is also a crossdresser on occasions. I have been to the Boilerhouse on 2 occasions earlier this year in Jan and Feb and on both occasions I had a great and relaxing experience. Staff there were very helpful and the place was very clean. On my 1st visit I met a guy in the sauna and we hit it off with just kissing & foreplay but no sex. I also happened to meet him again on my 2nd visit and hopefully again on future visits. I have experience of a place in New York when I was there on holidays last summer but it doesn't compare anywhere near the BH. I would recommend the Boilerhouse for anyone who is experienced or shy as I was on my 1st visit. Don't go with too many expectations and you won't be disappointed.