So.... I've been to Steve's probably 30 times now. Every time has been completely different from the past. Im mid 40s and in shape. The average person is either 20 years both directions. Im personally not into younger guys. So the older guys are welcomed by me. Ive had absolutely nothing happen to being the center of attention for the whole place on separate occasions. Most people are respectful and kind. Always the creepy guy lurking that won't take a hint though. The staff is always very welcoming and one that is very friendly and very giving to me when time is available. Give it a shot and have fun. I will again for sure.