Happy is a lifestyle

Coincidence? 10 happiest American cities that are also among the gayest

The happiest cities in America offer more than an active nightlife and towering loft apartments. Qualities of place, community, and opportunity are some key factors when determining if its citizenry is actually enjoying life.

So it’s no surprise that San Francisco has the highest percentage of LGBTQ-identifying adults — and that it also lands on the Top 10 list of happy metro areas complied by Gallup.

Based on the Gallup study, we put together a list of the happiest gay cities both for locals and visitors.

The study’s criteria for a “happy life” include healthy eating, learning something new every day, financial security, vacation time, and even dental checkups. Great gay communities count, too.

Check out where you favorite city ranks on the list and make that reservation now.

10. Austin, Texas

Austin is a blue dot in a red state, and in the music capitol, hippie roots remain. Gays who flock to Austin love the friendly vibes and outdoor lifestyle of camping, hiking, swimming at the springs, and rock climbing.

9. Portland, Maine

Positive attitudes about LGBTQ residents are one reason for an uptick in overall satisfaction, along with natural beauty (see photo!), environmental quality, and high-tech innovation.

8. San Diego, California

While four percent of San Diego residents identify as LGBTQ, the city has strong gay leadership among elected officials, as well as a community that strives for civil rights and an environment of equality.

7. Minneapolis, Minnesota

Based on the number of dating site profiles, the number of gay elected officials, lesbian bars, gay-friendly congregations, and gay-friendly business listings, Minneapolis is pretty darn gay.

6. Washington DC

The Nation’s Capitol has the highest percentage of LGBTQ-identifying adults in America — 10 percent — and also has a high percentage of same-sex couple households with four percent.

5. San Francisco, California

As the international gay capitol of the world, and the birthplace of the rainbow flag, it’s no surprise to see San Francisco on this list.

4. Honolulu, Hawaii

Same-sex marriage began in Honolulu and is a top gay travel destination with an active nightlife scene and multiple nude beaches, including the “unofficial” nude beach, Diamond Head. Go figure.

3. Naples, Florida

Tiny little Naples is home to some LGBTQ folks and families. While it’s not an in-your-face gay mecca, the beach town is welcoming and even has a gay restaurant and hang-out, Bambusa Bar and Grill.

2.  Anchorage, Alaska

America’s largest state has a little gay enclave. The Anchorage Transgender Community (ATC) hosts weekly meetings and in 2014, gay marriage became legal.

1. San Jose, California

Home to Silicon Valley and technology companies, San Jose actually has one of the lowest percentages of LGBTQ population. But as this is the happiest city in America, those who are there seem to be literally gay.

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