Don Derrick, 45M. I am gay, single, and looking for a Top Man.. and ppl say awe your shallow for posting that .. and my response is ... do you know how many dinner dates, movies, etc.. have been wasted (not totally for we can never have enough friends lol) because the that important question had not been raised, until the moment rises... and well it's fair in love and war.. lol I am a huge history buff, love current events, going to the lake, reflecting, daydreaming, spooning in the heart of winter..