Arnold Arnold, 56M. I'm an eclectic mixed bag of nuts. I like gardening, woodwork/carving, as well as travelling and social events. Love to cook and entertain. Oh, and I love to dance. Tribal Dance and Club, as well as country two-stepping. I would love to be sharing life with a partner, but... Definitely open to new friends and dating.

Sumter, South Carolina
Joined Aug 2011
10 Followers 6 Following

Following 6 people

7 Loved Places


  • Purgatory Gifford House West End, Provincetown
  • Dudley's Downtown, Charleston
  • PT's 1109 Vista, Columbia



  • blktoyman
    blktoyman reviewed Dudley's Over a year ago
    Loves it

    A Great Starter
    My Travel Buddy and I went to Dudley's in the early evening to start things off and get information about the Gay scene in Charleston. There were all kinds of people in there and a great vibe. I actually met a very nice gentlemen there, also visiting, and I hope to see him again in the future. Cute little bartender workin' it behind the small bar too.

  • blktoyman
    blktoyman reviewed PT's 1109 Over a year ago
    Hates it

    What happened to Gay Night Life in SC?
    In February, I visited PT's on a Sunday night. There were 9 people in the bar and that included the DJ, the cute little bartender and some guy surfing on a laptop. The bartender told me that nobody goes out on a Sunday night anymore like they used to do back in the 90's when I was in college. Recenty, I ventured to PT's again on a Saturday night. Much better... there were approximately 30 people in the space, including 2 cute bartenders, the DJ, 4 strippers, 2 guys on door and the owner. Now, everyone that worked there was very sweet and good-looking; however, the bartenders didn't know how to actually mix cocktails and the strippers were... tired. The music was great and the guys were nice, but nothing to brag about. I had a good time, but was a little disappointed because back in the 90's when I was in college there was all kinds of gay entertainment in SC and it was HOT. I'm also a bit spoiled... I'm from NYC.