Chicago bar owner Geno Zaharakis takes an interesting approach when it comes to hosting soon-to-be brides in plastic tiaras and their gaggles of feather boa clad bridesmaids. His Boystown bar, Cocktail, displays a sign as easy to read as the seductive looks that shoot across the small lounge after last call. The message? “No Bachelorette Parties.” Zaharakis’ harsh stance reflects the view that women who flaunt their weddings in the gayborhood are a serious downer to gay patrons not afforded the same rights. Even though he takes the financial hit with lost revenue, Zaharakis beleives strongly enough about the issue to keep his hard stance – despite backlash from members of his own community. Some gay rights activists and bar owners are speaking out against the unorthodox practice. They offer empathy for Zaharakis’ frustration, but choose to deal with the matter more inclusively. In Washington DC, Town Danceboutique owner Ed Bailey gladly welcomes bachelorette parties, but asks the ladies to sign a petition for gay marriage upon entry. To date, no one has yet to turn down the request.
What’s your take? Should women be allowed to celebrate their coming nuptials in an environment where those around them do not enjoy the same legal rights? or is Cocktail’s stance a step backwards in the fight for equality? We’d love to hear what you think!
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