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I'm a mid 40s totally closeted man with kids. I am heading to SF and want to end my virginity and finally be with a guy. I'm torn between hiring an escort abs going to a sex club. I'm totally afraid of getting an STD. At the clubs and the glory holes, will guys use condoms? Let me use one? I know I'll never come out, but I need to end my virginity. Any help is appreciated. I know people will say.. Just come out and end the charade, but I cannot do the divorce ... My kids will have married parents until they are18 and youngest is 6.See 1 answer