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I currently live in Detroit (midtown to be exact) and I am currently pursuing my Masters of Fine Arts. I am also a freelance designer. Focusing in Advertising design, Concept design, graphic design and digital media ( mostly motion graphics ). I am in a weird place as far as my gender. I am currently what you may call gender queer... but I have been thinking more and more about going through with transition and getting it over with. After all I have been on hormones for four years. So pretty much everything is all female but on the other hand I still dress like a guy. My sexuality is a matter of perspective... if you see me as a guy I'm straight(ish)... if you see me as a girl then I am a butch lesbian. I tend to lean towards the butch view myself. But I personally am really looking to moving on with my transition because I personally don't think I can pull off the guy thing anymore. Anyways I have only lived in Detroit for about five months and I am tired of being a shut in and not having any friends that I can relate with me. Or just don't care about who I am... gender wise of course. So if you want to hang out, go to a bar for a drink or grab a bite to eat I'm game. :)