older men

1. 
   dan54
   

   Where are all the older men in st. louis?

   Posted 11 months ago #
2. 
   J.J.Kleyer
   

   Hello Dan,
   I am in St. Louis, 1966. I am not sure of the age group you are looking for, or what you are looking for, but... there are "older men" who are friends of mine. Many of them no longer hang out in bars, or pop in for a drink or two, but leave early. If you are looking for a hook up, I couldn't really help you, other then maybe the bats, but... have met friends bowling, parties, church, and friends of friends.
   Have a nice night and happy hunting.
   JAZ

   Posted 11 months ago #
3. 
   luvnude
   

   i having the same problem finding them here in the detroit area also

   Posted 11 months ago #
4. 
   dan54
   

   Luvnude and I need to chat. Hav same interests/problems.

   Posted 10 months ago #
5. 
   Pewit
   

   The Drake Bar
   3502 Papin St.; Tel. 314.865.1400
   A piano bar with a patio, Drake's caters to an older, quieter clientele who prefer conversation to clubbing. But in keeping with tradition, the bartenders tend to be young and cute and the atmosphere emphasizes quality over quantity.

   Hope this helps

   Paul
   Editor, GrayGay.com
   The place for mature gay men and their admirers

   Posted 9 months ago #
6. 
   JhonieAppleseed37
   

   The majority fo mature "older" males? They have already "paired up" or lost there partners or family. Many believe that younger ones only wnat there money, like there families. I talked to one who's sisters childern he paid the tuition for them to go to college. And other expenses!

   All three reviced $250.00 from seventh to the ninth grade! Also two computers with printers and software in the seventh grade (for there studies). When they wnet to high school, they recived $500.00 per year for clothes. Also two updated computers. He paid full tution, for two four year degrees, also books for the first year(for each). The third, a daughter? two years at a voc-tek(also books)! And 500.00 for clothes

   He used to recive a christmas card, signed by all three of her childern. While they recived an education. Also one form his sister and her husband. two years after the brothers graduated, he didn't recive anything from them , just one christmas card from his sister, husband and daughter! Two years later? he didn't recive anything!

   This is why you don't find them very easy. A very common story of how a gay male is looked at by his own family. And how he thinks of others tryig to be a friend!

   Posted 9 months ago #
7. 
   lisabrown14
   

   BAd perceptive

   Posted 9 months ago #
8. 
   jason_p
   

   Johnny Apples, you are spot on. I am 55 and can relate to your post.

   Posted 8 months ago #
9. 
   travelingay
   

   Hey, just got on this site and found your post. This has been a pre-occupation of mine lately--since my retiremnet. I have tried to make a new social life for myself, but like you have trouble making connections with older guys. Really just looking for friendships. In a LTR, so not really looking to hook up other than for some company during the daytime.

   Posted 7 months ago #
10. 
    Denny
    

    Johnnyapples said it correctly. I have heard some tails myself. As I too am starting to get used to being in the "older club" myself, I hate that, cuz I feel too young inside!!! Hope to make friends with all of you.

    Posted 7 months ago #
11. 
    chizonthetop
    

    Hey, I'm older, and having the time of my life!

    Posted 6 months ago #
12. 
    Jerzy
    

    Here's my two-cents...numbers don't mean daaam thing its what you make-of-it. Don't hold back man go-for-it!!!

    Posted 6 months ago #
13. 
    misterpretender
    

    I totally agree with jerzy!

    Posted 6 months ago #
14. 
    KenCT
    

    Don't know if you're allowed to recommend specific sites here but there are several where young men can meet older men and vice versa. I met a guy 25 years younger than me and we've been a couple for over three years. A record for me.

    Posted 6 months ago #
15. 
    naykidthrob1950
    

    I am Rob, living in the Sacramento area. When I was a young teen until I was 17, I was extremely close and sexually active with two of the many young guys I was growing up with. That was 40 years ago. Since that time I've been married three times. Had one daughter who I am very proud of. Three weeks ago, while talking to my ex-wife over the phone I had this epiphany that I was gay. I lost my domineering mother back in Nov. of 2008, and while I loved her, it was the reason why I buried my being gay for 40 years. I came out to my remaining family, and they are fine with it. My daughter is definitely o.k. with it. I want to get back in touch with my gay feelings. I am not kidding myself here, I really am attracted to men. I really want to have an intimate and fulfilling relationship with a supportive, instructive, patient and caring, slender, hung gay man. I currently do not work, and am seeking disability for a hearing problem. I am 58, average build, I hate wearing clothing, I am artistic, caring Libra. I didn't know how else to do this? I do not drive, and I cannot entertain. I think I'm a bottom. I am planning on going through counseling with Sacramento Gay, Lesbian Support Group. I truly want my gay experience to be a positive one. I want this, I need this. send intimate photos descriptions to... naykidthrob1950@yahoo.com

    Posted 5 months ago #
16. 
    Dauntless
    

    I have had great luck in the past at SilverDaddies.com. My guess is that there are other sites that cater to older guys. I have had great luck on ManHunt as well - both for younger guys (but I never have ENOUGH luck - heh heh) and older guys. I have to say that most guys do a very lousy job of getting their profile out there. They put really no effort into it, provide little to no information, and put pics up that are almost useless for anything. A big yawning ass hole is not a major turn on - perhaps for some and then that kind of pic would target them - but probably not a large audience that finds JUST an ass hole interesting (and I freely admit I may be wrong on that). If most guys profiles were resumes then they would remain unemployed for a very long time. Height, weight, age, waist, hairy or smooth, cock (length, girth, cut/uncut), shaved cock/balls/ass? primarily like anal top, or anal bottom, oral, swallow, only with condoms, only bare, and topped off with some clear, lit, artfully done pictures are necessary. There is no excuse for shitty pics - excellent quality pics can be made with almost any digital camera - go buy one - its worth it for the sex you will get. Then use a program to reduce the file size (but keep the pics fairly large) so they can be sent from the sites where you have your profile. Big files will be rejected. 12-40 kb should be your target. You can be morbidly obese and there will be someone who would LOVE to jump in the sack with you - but admittedly the market would seem to be small - but a good ad will find 'em. Likewise you can be tall and skinny as a rail and there will be guys wanting to jump your bones - But it takes lots of computer time and sticking to the goal of getting laid. A well tended body with the hard work that it takes to maintain it (the more so as you grow older) will have a much larger audience interested in them - and you will live longer and may get you a whole lot more sex. But remember one thing people are different, people are strange - Some like their venues clean and nicely appointed, other like em so their feet stick to the drying cum on the floor, smells of urine, and is downright smarmy.

    Posted 1 month ago #
17. 
    joiningthefun2
    

    looking for men 45+ in the Westchester / NYC area

    I'm 56

    Posted 1 month ago #

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