http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ GayCities Forums » Topic: How did you discover your own gayness? en Wed, 25 Nov 2009 00:38:55 +0000 http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-946 Sat, 14 Nov 2009 09:03:48 +0000 curiosity395 946@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>sorry first post didnt work. its just that i like boys and girls its just i find myself more attracted to my own twinkish flamboyant out there style </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-931 Wed, 11 Nov 2009 15:40:06 +0000 ftwcarman 931@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>I knew when I was in the 3rd grade. I had a neighbor about 14 years old who showed me pictures of naked men in a magazine. I could not get enought seeing those naked butts. I tried for years and years to suppress my feelings and finally had my first gay encounter at age 30. I wish I had those years back. All I can say is act on your feelings. You will soon know where your preferences lie. </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-927 Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:28:49 +0000 sean_df 927@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>unfortunately only became fully gay about 15 years ago. Was born during an era when one was expected to marry and have a family. Actually began sucking a neighbor my age at 12, and continued to 17. Amazingly we did not think of ourselves as gay! </p> <p>Thanks to a wonderful gay man who learned of my situation 15 years ago; was introdued to a wonderful life! </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-914 Fri, 06 Nov 2009 07:29:14 +0000 supersaiyan 914@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>I remember being in high school as a frosh, and there was this one guy who always looked his best, and halfway through the year, a friend asked me which girl I was taking to the dance. I kinda unconsciously pointed to 'him' and I was like, "him," and my friend was staring at me weird. I asked him, "what?" and he scrunched up his face and said"you're gay?" I guess that was when I realized that, yeah, hey, i AM gay. Things kinda pop up at you sometimes, it's not always 'I only noticed the guys'- the girls just aren't as intersting. :) </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-901 Sat, 31 Oct 2009 19:30:28 +0000 dan54 901@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>Through my involvement in ballet. Seeing myself in the mirror doing movements with females, dressed in ballet attire. If we were all wearing tutus I would have been fem like them. </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-899 Thu, 29 Oct 2009 18:01:09 +0000 YourPalPete 899@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>Chris, this is a complicated and very interesting question. I think I find myself in the category of 100% gay and 0% straight, but there are a lot of people who I believe are multi-sexual. I feel a bit jealous imagining all the stimulation those people can react to. For me, it was obvious early on. I had my first experience when I was in 4th grade. It was with an "older man" in 6th grade who matured early. I can't go into the details here, but let me tell you that it definitely fueled my fantasies. Because of societal pressures, I went through the usual period of denial, but in my heart and in my head, I knew it was real. My turning point was my acceptance of myself. You may find yourself in the category that I call multi-sexual (lucky you!), but in any case, the key to your happiness and enjoyment will come with accepting what is, and ignoring what society tells you should be. </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-716 Fri, 10 Jul 2009 05:20:03 +0000 blakexox 716@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>me when i was in grade school staying at my stiff mother brother, his a gay then i feel sometimes why I'm attractive with the guy!! LOL ☺☺☺</p> <p>i like to look a handsome Boys LOL ☺☺☺</p> <p>that's why i am a gay now LOL☺1☺ </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-703 Mon, 29 Jun 2009 17:33:05 +0000 bullseye 703@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>for me, it was looking at a friend's playboy magazine when i was probably 13 or so. there was a big feature on the movie "blue lagoon," starring brook shields and christopher atkins. my friend was checking out brook shields while i had eyes only for christopher. plus, i was the only boy in my school to like the band abba. :-) </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-697 Sun, 28 Jun 2009 15:40:02 +0000 Scott 697@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>Well, only you can know for sure where your feelings lie. And not everyone is clearcut 100% gay or 100% straight. </p> <p>For me, I knew it when I was going through puberty. When I found myself really attracted to the jocks in my school and wouldn't even give girls a second look. I found a porn magazine (guy/girl) and would only look at the naked guy. I moved on to gay porn from there. It took me many years after that before I had my first experience with a guy, but by then I knew that was where it was going.</p> <p>I never believed that this was a phase and I don't know that you should either. I saw your other post in the other topic and dealing with having a marriage makes it only that much more difficult. In the end, there's only one way to know for sure - but I would hope that you could find someone local to at least talk it through adn meet some people before jumping to anything rash. </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-696 Sun, 28 Jun 2009 14:42:01 +0000 Jerzy 696@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>Well that's a kno-brainer!! Luv-cock instead of pussy... </p> http://www.gaycities.com/forums/topic/how-did-you-discover-your-own-gayness#post-695 Sun, 28 Jun 2009 03:15:47 +0000 chrisbiguy 695@http://www.gaycities.com/forums/ <p>I am going through the process of dicovering that I might be gay? What kinds of experiences have other people had? How did you know for sure that you were gay? Me, I am not sure but, the signs are definately pointing in that direction! </p>