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So I have suspected my friend was gay for a long time so after I accidentally saw where he had had sex (through craigslist multiple times) in his email I decided I'd tell him I was bi and I was into him. And he continues to tell me he's not gay. I asked him if he ever has crushes on girls or anything like that and he says all the time but he has never been with one he says he is just addicted to sex but is attracted to girls. Basically it's like this "You’re attracted to girls, you have crushes on them, and you are never attracted to any guys, but you have sex with guys" i said that to him. I have a huge crush on him but not in a creepy way or anything we both know each other really well. We are both in our 30's. He has had sex with like 7-10 guys all way older than him and ilove being with guys. Below is an email he sent me after I sent him an email explain my crush on him. joseph amico posts: "Yes, it is really weird to have sex with older guys. I really wish I never would have started. but when I was like 15 I would get on chats and pretend to be gay just for the talking aspect of it. I never planned to actually meet anyone. Then right when I turned 16 I stumbled upon craigslist. I pretty much found someone in cullman wanting the same as me in like 5 minutes. We started emailing and texting and stuff. Then one day we met and I didn't really know what to do. The whole reason I thing I did that I wanted to know what sex was like, and my hormones were driving me crazy and it was so easy to find some one on craigslist. So after that, I would go over to his house maybe once every 2 weeks. Then I stopped for a while. I was doing really good but then one day I somehow got back on craigslist and charles' came into the picture. And you pretty much know the rest of the story from there. Now let me try to explain why I don't think I'm gay. I really think that I was just addicted to sex there for a while. Since there was no connection or emotion involved I didn't feel attracted to either guy. It was more of the fact that I tolerated them just so I could have sex. If I had had a girlfriend then all of that would have stopped because I slushy need them any more and I would feel guilty." Do you think he is gay? Or does he just like sex? I think he just is into older guys cause he likes the attention and just doesnt see the point in telling me he is gay but i mean he has told me this much...why wouldn't he just tell me he's gay and that he's not into my type? What is your wisdom??